Three Types of Women You Should Date...

Recently While searching for Dating Tips and Ideas. I got a really interesting Article. And i feel i should share it with my lovely readers.

When most "dating gurus" and sex therapists spout their dating tips, they often complicate the whole process with unusable theory and psychobabble.

I’m going to bypass that, make it brain-dead simple for you, and most importantly, reveal a few dating tips you can apply in the real world. In these dating tips, I'm going to share with you the little-known concept of the "three types of women.”

There's a wonderful book you should read called "Winning Through Intimidation" by Robert Ringer. You can get it on Amazon for a few bucks (get the original version published in the 1970's, not the new "touchy feely" one.) Many people are turned off by the title, thinking it's about "scaring" people into giving you what you want. That's not what it's about, though. It's actually about protecting yourself from intimidation. It's also a fun read, full of hilarious stories and even a few cartoons (of turtles wearing sunglasses). But it's a book each and everyone looking for dating tips needs to read, because the part I'm about to share with you absolutely applies to interacting successfully and effortlessly with sexy women.

In the book, Ringer talks about the three types of people in the business world- and in my experience he's 100% correct. Here they are.

Type #1 this is the guy who is out to get all your "chips" and lets you know about it. This guy is "straightforward" about his intentions, what some would call honest.

Type #2 this is the guy who assures you he is not out to get your "chips", and in fact, tells you he wants you to get everything that is coming to you. Then he attempts to grab all your "chips" anyways. Type #2's are the most treacherous type.

Type#3: this is the guy who assures you he is not out to get your chips, and sincerely means it, but by his bumbling, stumbling or just pure incompetence he winds up trying to take them anyways (even though he doesn't mean to). How do the “three types” translate into a usable dating tip?

And, how does all of this relate to success with attracting sexy women? Well, it's been my experience that women fall into, roughly, these three types as well.

Type #1: she's straightforward with you about her intentions… whether she's into "fun friends," or looking for a husband, she is forthright with you up front. She knows herself and what makes her happy. 

Type #2: this is the woman who appears to be straightforward with you about what she wants… but for whatever reason, she's out to get your money, deliberately break your heart, or she's just pissed at all men -what a female friend of mine called a "cruel woman." Like the above type #2, the operative word here is "treacherous."

Type #3: this is the woman who truly believes herself when she tells you what she's looking for, but for whatever reason, bad things seem to happen around her… she "self sabotages" whenever things are going good, and winds up wreaking great emotional havoc on the men in her lives, even though she doesn't mean to. The result is still the same as dealing with a Type #2, though, and that’s why it’s vitally important you pay close attention to the above dating tips.

Obviously you want to spend your time with the Type #1's (in business and with women) and avoid the Type #2's. If you pay attention and listen for her, what I call, map/model of the world, you can usually identify the Type #2's. You'll hear things like "my last boyfriend was cheap, he wouldn't take me out or buy me things." Or, things like, "I drove by his house and a strange car was in the driveway… he was cheating on me." Here is a dating tip that will save you time, money, and heartache: when you hear things like this, run away FAST.

Type #3's can be more difficult to identify. It usually takes a lot longer, and you have to pay careful attention. Listen for things like, "It was going along so good, and I just don't know what happened." Type #3's are controlled by their "inner world," not in control of it. That's why I usually recommend starting any relationship as just "fun friends" so you can begin to get a clear picture of her map/model of the world and pinpoint her Type. A lot of what appear to be Type #1's in the beginning actually identify themselves as Type #3's later on down the line. You can never stop paying attention, or you will get in trouble. Dating tips like this one can be applied, and used day in and day out. Start paying attention to this, and watch just how true this is. It's the difference between happiness and misery!

John Alanis, "The King of Let 'em Come to You", is author of the "Women Approach You" system at

His blog is at

Some tips to carry when Online Dating


Man will never be an island.


Yes, as long as we breathe, we live as social creatures. We have this innate longing for companion- for someone to talk to, to listen, to comfort. Even the person who people think to be cold has another individual by his or her side. When one feels alone, it is like all the ghosts of life haunt him or her. All the emptiness tend to grow when one has nobody to call his or hers.


Many resort to Online Dating. The web offers numerous websites where you could meet, make friends, and, have relationship with persons who are registered in these websites. You just do not know what story of friendship or love awaits you. When you are single, with that it means you may be someone really single, divorced, widow, widower- online dating is there. Just like any kind of dating, one needs to equip his or her self with the different tips needed to make the most out of it.


There are these traditional dating strategies that work out and will always work out:


For women, it is not commendable to so assertive and goes after the men they want or like. Waiting for that man and being discreet is a better way. As to men, playing as if the “timid” one who is just too shy when it comes to meeting and interacting  with the opposite sex is not good at all. Let go of the confidence and look for that girl you want.


Talking about sexual topics when you do not know your date yet that well is not good at all. Verbal foreplay will just let the two of you focus on this aspect, get carried away and forget about the more important sides of the newly-found bond. This must be avoided another thing is not to have a sexual relationship before being committed. This would also be the one that will destroy the one which was established.


Stay true and be yourself as you are on the process of online dating. This will enable both of you to know each other really well and know if you are compatible with each other. The more you pretend, the more the relationship will grow weak in the future.


If you are afraid of getting hurt again, never test your partner if he or she has the capacity to do it to you too. This is very unhealthy for the relationship. Moreover, do not expect a lot and be disappointed easily. Every person is unique so do not let the other person be who you want her or him to be.


The best tip is this: to enjoy every moment and to get to know and eventually grow in love without the pressure of making everything the way you only want it to be.

Poetry and Music to please him/her...

This Idea uses the simplicity of Poetry, feleings of music and comany of your loving partner. Thays why it's one of most memorable dating Idea.

Memorize one of Shakespeare's love sonnets and recite it to your partner when you are in a romantic setting like a botanical garden. Don't just suddenly start reciting poetry as this will just sound corny.

While you are cuddling your partner, ask in a joking manner, "So is now a good time to recite a love poem to you?" She will probably say yes, expecting you to come up with something of the 

"Roses are Red..." variety.

Instead, look into her eyes, smile and recite the sonnet while you gently stroke her face. Try the sonnet below. If this is too long, just memorize the first four lines and the last two.

Shakespeare Love Sonnet 18
Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate.
Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
And summer's lease hath all too short a date.
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
And often is his gold complexion dimmed,
And every fair from fair sometime declines,
By chance or nature's changing course untrimmed.
But thy eternal summer shall not fade,
Nor lose possession of that fair thou owest,
Nor shall Death brag thou wander'st in his shade
When in eternal lines to time thou grow'st.
So long as men can breathe, or eyes can see,
So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.

Happy Valentines Day

This Valentine's I wish that you were with me.
It's lonelier than most days I'm alone,
Even though we'll manage on the phone
To touch with words the face we cannot see. 
You away are far more dear to me
Than anyone who might remain at home.
My love is in the places that you roam,
Being with you where I cannot be.
We do not choose the objects of our passion,
But passively await the holy fire 
That immolates our past and lights our fate,
Twisting through the alleys of desire.
So I am yours, and will contented wait,
Allowing love my life and will to fashion.

A Valentine is nothing like
A chocolate or a rose.
For in a week these shall be gone,
But Valentines remain.

If love were always sweet to tongue
Or fragrant to the nose,
Each day would be like Valentine's,
And we would go insane.
A Valentine just hangs around
Waiting to be kissed
Long after special days have passed
And every days are here.

So one is wise to choose one well
And chocolates to resist.
For in the midst of mania
It's nice to have one near.

Be my Valentine, for I
Each day have thought of you.
My whole life couldn't manage what
Your ready smile can do,
Vanquishing my loneliness
As though all light were new.

Let me be your Valentine
Even as you're mine,
Needing what I have to give 
That each might each define
I n friendship and in harmony,
Now you, now I the melody,
Each helping each to shine
Valentine's Day
Is a wonderful way
To make "I love you"
Easy to say.
To ask you to be my Valentine
I'd have to talk to you,
Something that in all this time
I've managed not to do.
I'd have to get past "Hi!" somehow
To show you that I care,
But the right time is never now,
Especially when you're there.
It's as if a wall of fear,
Transparent yet profound,
Came hurtling up as you come near,
Cutting off all sound.
I fear I won't know what to say
And strike you as a fool,
Or you'll be glad to get away,
Polite not to be cruel.
Easier to dream than act,
To hope than to find out,
So fearful of the force of fact
I wait in fear-filled doubt.
But now the day of love has come,
And I must cross its line,
And so I ask you through this poem
To be my Valentine.

Three Keys to the most unforgettable date...


Dating is such a fun experience for whatever age it is, there is that different feeling of fulfillment and sheer joy as you meet a person you seem to have interest with. This is a means of finding your future life partner. It could also be a way of getting to know you better for through dating, the side of yourself that you are less familiar with is being unraveled.


When one is out on a date, what must he do in order to make the date worth a memory to cherish? Are there strict guidelines to follow? There are actually none, but there could be helpful tips in order for you to make the most out of your date. These tips are really important so that you would be able to act well and enjoy the rest of the time you have with that special person.


  • Observe punctuality.

Time matters in almost any meeting or activity, it matters most in a date especially if it is the first date. Cliché as it may seem but first impressions last and you have to take good care of your date’s impression of you. It may mean something negative if you fail to arrive on time. You may have all the excuses, but you have to show the best efforts in order not to be late.


  • Remind yourself that you are just excited and not nervous

 That strange pump of your heart is just going to distract you from doing well and enjoying your time. Well, it is but normal to feel that way but do not allow it to swallow you and stop you from doing the things you wanted to do. If you cannot stand the feeling, see to it that you divert that emotion to something that is more positive. Instead of feeling nervous, you have to remind yourself that you are just excited. This could really help you ease the burden of being worried or pressured. Being nervous does not help out, drop it off.


  • Honesty is still the best policy

You do not have to impress your date by telling tall tales. Sincerity and honesty would always lead you to that acceptance from others. With your honest way of opening yourself to that person you choose to go out with, you would surely reap a warm and honest treatment as well. You could appear impressive without being dishonest. When you are true to what you say and feel, it exudes.


These are just three of the most helpful tips that could make heaven out of your date. Remember, it is the first step to find that lifetime partner you have been waiting for. For more tips, you could find them online. But for the best three tips, stick with our advice.

Tipsps & Tricks to
Save time (and have more fun) with online dating!

The best thing about dating websites is more people and more choices.
The worst thing about dating websites is all the hours you'll spend chatting or emailing
back and forth with so many people.
You don't want to be confined to your desk on a weekend, pounding out emails by the
dozen. Yet, you do want to write interesting and engaging emails, you want to contact
new singles and keep in touch.
Is there a way to be an active cyber-dater and actually have a life?
You bet there is, and it's easy! Just follow these proven tips:

1. Have an Email template:
Have a handy fill-in-the-blanks template which you can use to quickly write
exciting 'icebreaker' emails.
I know it sounds dishonest - about as dishonest as using a reminder service to
send flowers or having your Secretary book air tickets for your family
vacation…It's practical and convenient and it doesn't mean you don't care!
It's not possible for you to actually sound interesting in all your emails, especially
when you're writing to someone you've never met before. Besides, what if they
don't write back - all your efforts would be in vain!
Most people try to get over this problem by writing short emails, such as "Hi I'm
Mike, you're gorgeous, can we chat? I'm at" (Yawn!)
Chances are, Ms. Gorgeous has her mailbox flooded with emails exactly like
these and might forget or choose not to answer yours.
I personally feel that as long as your emails are honest and you care sincerely
about a person, it doesn't matter whether you write an email from scratch in 30
minutes or use a handy template that does the job in 3 minutes. It's a matter of
Have a few minutes to spare? Sit down now and write an email to that special
someone. Write about your life, your family, your dreams and aspirations, ask
questions that convey genuine interest and invite them to get in touch. Viola!
Your ice-breaker email is ready!
Now all you have to do is to personalize it with the recipient's name and work in
the details you know about them. Easy!

2. The Quick and Easy way to share photos
Attaching photos with your email can be a real pain in the neck!
You keep forgetting where you last saved them, maybe you have a lousy dial-up
connection which takes ages, or you travel a lot and you don't have your photos
on that computer, or if you use your mobile phone to send emails, you're
probably tearing your hair out at the very thought of it.
Relax! Many people upload their photos to websites such as All they
need to do is send a hyperlink with their email! The recipient only needs to sign
up to view the photos online or order prints.
If you want to save your recipient the bother of signing up, use a free hosting
service such as
If you have a free Yahoo Email Id, you can use your Id to log in to
Click File Upload and upload any number of photos you want within their storage
limit (which is quite generous). Then, go to File Manager, click through each
photo and carefully note the hyperlink that shows up in your browser's address
Now you're ready to include those hyperlinks with all your emails! Your recipient
can simply click through to view your images. Neat!

3. Don't beat around the bush
Say what you mean, and mean what you say!
If you hate kids, does it matter that the single dad you have been emailing all
week shares your love for gardening and says the most romantic things you ever
heard? And if you can't stand smokers, does it matter that she's prettier than
any woman you ever dated?
Make a list of your key questions and ask them first. Sure, you might offend
some people but most will appreciate your honesty and feel confident about
corresponding with you.

4. Chat for short spells
Chatting is a great way to create some "vibe" before you actually meet. You're
more likely to be honest and say what you really mean, when you aren't worried
about looking good, smelling nice or remembering your table manners.
But keep an eye on your watch, will you? You don't want to spend your entire
weekend staring at the monitor and pounding away at the keyboard. That's the
fastest way to frustration!
Chat for half an hour at most and use email to keep in touch.

5. Cell phone chat Etiquette
If your Instant Messenger indicates that your date is 'mobile', send shorter
messages that can be answered in 1-2 words, for example:
dinner tonight 8 pm? Don't expect your date to chat longer than a few minutes.
Cell phone chatting is pesky and slow. Use it sparingly.

6. Office Id? Use discretion!
Many companies monitor their employee's email correspondence. Don't send
messages that might embarrass your date if discovered, or which might prompt
them to respond in a way that could lead to embarrassment.

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Romantic Ideas for the Day...

IDEA # 1
While walking with your partner on a weekend getaway, pick up a smooth stone and say that you're going to keep it as a special memento of your trip. Later, have a message such as

"I Love Rebecca"

engraved into the stone by a jeweler and give it to your partner.

IDEA # 2
Drive into the country, find a grassy hill and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds. Play the kid’s game of looking for shapes in the cloud formations.

IDEA # 3
Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write "I Love You" inside a heart.

Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner's work such as:

For the immediate and urgent attention of:
Rebecca Jones
Level 20
Collins & Smith Solicitors
New York

Mail it to your partner so she receives it in the middle of a busy day.

7 Beautiful Romantic Ideas to express ur feelings...

IDEA # 1
If your partner is going away for a few days, tell her that you are worried about her so you have organized a bodyguard to look after her. Then give her a small teddy bear.

IDEA # 2
Buy a packet of glow in the dark stars and stick the stars on the roof above your bed to spell out a message such as "I Love You" When the lights go down, your message will be revealed!

IDEA # 3
On a special occasion, buy your partner eleven real red roses and one artificial red rose. Place the artificial rose in the center of the bouquet.
Attach a card that says:

“I will love you until the last rose fades.”
IDEA # 4
Buy the domain name of your partner's name if it is available for example Create a web page containing a romantic poem and a picture of a rose. When your partner is surfing the web, casually ask whether she has ever checked to see whether her domain name is taken. Let her type it in to discover her page.
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IDEA # 5
Buy a stylish hand mirror and give it to your partner as a gift. Include a card in the box saying
“In this mirror you will see the image of the most beautiful woman in the world.”

IDEA # 6
Take a book that your partner is reading and using a pencil, underline letters in a section of the book she has yet to read to spell out a love letter. For example in the following exert from a novel, the underlined letters come together to spell out the secret message "I love you"
The palace was a labyrinth, their passage through it tortuous and interminable. Initially they passed from building to building under the sodden sky. Steve's feet ached; he might have laughed at himself, the tireless traveler, grown too soft from his months in the city to walk any proper distance. Abruptly the guards halted.
The underlined letters will make your partner curious and with a bit of luck she will write them down. Spend time to encode a proper message such as "Dear Belinda, I love you honey"

IDEA # 7
Have flowers delivered to your partner's workplace. She will not only enjoy the flowers but will also receive comments and attention from her office mates which will add to her enjoyment.

Dumb Dating Mistakes Men Make with Women

Dumb Dating Mistakes Men Make with Women

Do you strike out with single women in the romance department no matter what you do? You can even be a drop-dead good-looking guy, but unless you know what is offensive to a woman's ears, you are likely to stick your foot in your mouth and make a fool of yourself and turn off women.

With today's single woman you need to know what she wants and then give to her without sounding phony. The following are some common mistakes men make when dating single women that turn women off:

1. When talking to or about single women, are you still living back in time and calling them babes, broads, chicks, or something even more repulsive? Always call a woman by her name! If you use these terms mentioned, you will insult and turn single women completely off.

2. When out on a date, do you spend all of your time eyeing other women in the bar, nightclub, or restaurant? Don't even think for a minute that she won't notice. She will not only notice, but may be so turned off by your behavior that she may never want to see you again. Always focus all of your undivided attention on the woman you're with. Treat her like a Princess and she will make you her Prince.

3. Another common mistake men make early in a relationship with a single woman is being too sexually aggressive. After just meeting a woman you don't want to come on all hot & horny and all you can focus on is jumping her bones and pawing at her body. This kind of behavior can scare women and turn them off. They usually don't like a complete stranger pawing at their bodies and making sexual overtones. Get to know her first to where she is comfortable with you and then make your physical moves.

4. When talking to a woman, do find yourself concentrating totally on her breasts? This is a real no, no! Always look women in the eyes when talking to her. Believe me, if all you can do is stare at her breasts, she will catch on to it and will ditch you as soon as possible. Women don't like men who constantly stare at their breasts. In a topless club it's OK, but not when you just meet a woman or in the early stages of dating.

5. If a woman wants to be independent, let her. For instance, if she wants to change her own flat tire, let her. If she wants to open her own door, let her. If she wants to order her own food or wine, let her. Let her assert her independence. It will make a good impression on her. You're making a big mistake if you want to act Macho all the time and not let her act independent if this is what she desires.

6. Some misguided men think it's sexy and cool to brag about what a great lover they have been to their other girlfriends, about getting high on drugs, or how good they can hold their liquor. You are not impressing women with this. As a matter a fact, she will probably find that you are obnoxious and potentially dangerous.

In closing, if you are making any of these dating blunders and displaying these offensive habits, get them corrected immediately. I hate to keep pounding this into your head, but if you turn women off, you are stacking the odds against yourself in successfully meeting, dating, attracting, and seducing single women.

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In Preparation for the Big Date . . .

After the invitation to have a date with you, yes you could rejoice a bit but this must not take you for so long, you need to prepare for the day, the real day that you have been wishing for to arrive. Your preparation matters most. When you do not know what exactly to do, let us lend you our guides.

These are the tips that would surely let you walk the right path for the date you have pictured out:

* Set an early date for that date.

When you set such a date weeks after, it could just make your patience brittle and it would just pile up stress unto you. At first, you may feel that excitement inside you but as the days grow longer, you may get more and more impatient.

* Choose a less formal venue

For the first date, it would not be too comfortable if you choose a place where you would feel stuffy. Better have in mind a venue that is less formal but more fun. The too much formality thing may just stop you from getting to know each other well.

* Lunch time for the first time.

To all those who are having a “get to know each other date”, it is advisable to have an early date so that rushing plans to make the time special may not happen. There could still be that romantic touch though the sun is out. Evening dates may come after the first date.

* Think more of the person not the place.

Pressures about the venue, the food to order and the clothes you would wear. These are just secondary and they do not have to post so much pressure on you. If you allow this to happen, you would surely get carried away with the pressures and forget the real purpose of the date.

* Informal but not scruffy

As mentioned above, you have to choose a venue that is less formal but it does not mean that it has to be scruffy and you do not have to look as one scruffy thing as well. Look presentable though not that very formal.

* Your wealth is not the topic

There are a lot of fun and light things to talk about, do not brag about what you or your parents have. This would not be so nice for a topic that may just spoil the rest of the time. Humility would surely be a ticket to more dates.

These are just some of the many tips you need to have in your heart so that you would also have those good memories to be brought about by the great date you have. Of course, you have your own way of making this day special too.

If I want to date with my office mate…


Love or any of its elements seem to bloom in any place- even the places you least expect it to grow in. Workplace? It is not that impossible at all. It is even one of the best venues to search for a prospect life partner since one is more aware of what this other person is. You work with that person so you get to know more of him inside and out. On the second thought, is it a bed of roses in all angles?


The answer is of course- NO. In whatever form of romance story, there will always be these villains. But, what if you want to go out and have a date with a co-worker?


Just imagine this: a male co-worker sends a present to you, it will surely be a big-hot issue for the whole office. The bigger issue to face is the negative consequences entailed by the romance you choose to have. There are some reasons why office romance is not allowed by some companies. Therefore, be sure to make your self aware of the internal rules of the company. For some, it is a grave offense and an employee will be terminated from work.


Romance at work will greatly affect an employee’s decision-making. With this, team efforts and some team tasks will really be moved by couple-employees. It is a fact that once personal life s inserted in professionalism, trouble might bite.


Another picture is that for couples, what if one gets the promotion over the other? Yes, they are lovers but there will always be that “”ego” thing since both people are having the same job. Professionals as they are, they have that aim to be at par from the rest of the employees.


Reassignment is another issue. Some companies’ reassign one of the persons to another task just to overcome assumed affects which may not well for the company. If the reassignment of the other person is not favorable for the relationship, it will plunge down their good performance. Thus, it affects their over-all production.


When a couple is constantly together, it will also affect the team tasks where may one of them join into. Other co-workers will also be affected and intimidated.


Despite all of these negative effects, there will always be that positive thing about romance at work. You meet a partner who could understand you and your mood swings because you share the same pressures of work.


When you are just on the dating stage, see to it that you that you do it as discreetly as you could without triggering some possible gossips that may just affect you and the person involved. Being professional includes knowing how to put that margin between your workplace and your private life.


How to Ask Someone Out on a Date

How to Ask Someone Out on a Date

No more hesitations, this is the moment you have been dreaming of and only you could push it to reality. But, how could you have that dream date? Of course, you have to start from the top. And, that is to ask the person you are interested out on a date. Well, how could you invite a person out? Do you need to be aggressive? Do you need to play safe? Tips to ask someone out would surely be a great help for you.


The following are simple but very essential tips you could lean on in times that you seem to find it hard asking a person for a date. For men, these tips are really great help for you invite that person in your mind.


·        Know the right reason or reasons for asking a person out. When you know your purpose, it would surely have the idea of how to express it in a medium that you are most comfortable with.


·        What if the person says no? Save that part of you and prepare to whatever the answer of the other person is. Do not take the “no” so heavily. Learn the beauty of grace in such times.


·        In order to say well the words you want to express, you may try to do some practicing in order for you to get conditioned of how to say such lines you needed to tell the person you want to be with.


·        Be sure that you have the most important details you have for the date in mind. The person might say “yes” and you just do not know where to go, that would be a real “turn off”. As much as possible, be ready with ideas.


·        See to it that you know how to answer whenever the person asks you why you are asking her out. You do not have to be a very huge flatterer but you have to make sure that you make the person feel good. This way of showing how much thoughtful you are.


·        Never pressure a person to go out with you. This is not healthy and it would even branch out to negative outcomes. Remember not to pressure a person to tell you why it is a “no”.


·        Do not stand people up. This means that when you ask a person out, you mean it and you do not leave her just expecting for nothing at all.


·        If the person says no, do not be bitter about it. You just have to move on and never treat the person unwell.


·        Having some beer just to boost your confidence is a no. It may just push you to worse situations. You have to be naturally confident.


·        The more, the merrier but not for a first date. When you are out to ask a person for a date, do not do it when she is with a circle of friends.


These are really useful tips and you have to take note of them, they would surely help you out in maximizing the time you spend with that special person.