Three Types of Women You Should Date...

Recently While searching for Dating Tips and Ideas. I got a really interesting Article. And i feel i should share it with my lovely readers.

When most "dating gurus" and sex therapists spout their dating tips, they often complicate the whole process with unusable theory and psychobabble.

I’m going to bypass that, make it brain-dead simple for you, and most importantly, reveal a few dating tips you can apply in the real world. In these dating tips, I'm going to share with you the little-known concept of the "three types of women.”

There's a wonderful book you should read called "Winning Through Intimidation" by Robert Ringer. You can get it on Amazon for a few bucks (get the original version published in the 1970's, not the new "touchy feely" one.) Many people are turned off by the title, thinking it's about "scaring" people into giving you what you want. That's not what it's about, though. It's actually about protecting yourself from intimidation. It's also a fun read, full of hilarious stories and even a few cartoons (of turtles wearing sunglasses). But it's a book each and everyone looking for dating tips needs to read, because the part I'm about to share with you absolutely applies to interacting successfully and effortlessly with sexy women.

In the book, Ringer talks about the three types of people in the business world- and in my experience he's 100% correct. Here they are.

Type #1 this is the guy who is out to get all your "chips" and lets you know about it. This guy is "straightforward" about his intentions, what some would call honest.

Type #2 this is the guy who assures you he is not out to get your "chips", and in fact, tells you he wants you to get everything that is coming to you. Then he attempts to grab all your "chips" anyways. Type #2's are the most treacherous type.

Type#3: this is the guy who assures you he is not out to get your chips, and sincerely means it, but by his bumbling, stumbling or just pure incompetence he winds up trying to take them anyways (even though he doesn't mean to). How do the “three types” translate into a usable dating tip?

And, how does all of this relate to success with attracting sexy women? Well, it's been my experience that women fall into, roughly, these three types as well.

Type #1: she's straightforward with you about her intentions… whether she's into "fun friends," or looking for a husband, she is forthright with you up front. She knows herself and what makes her happy. 

Type #2: this is the woman who appears to be straightforward with you about what she wants… but for whatever reason, she's out to get your money, deliberately break your heart, or she's just pissed at all men -what a female friend of mine called a "cruel woman." Like the above type #2, the operative word here is "treacherous."

Type #3: this is the woman who truly believes herself when she tells you what she's looking for, but for whatever reason, bad things seem to happen around her… she "self sabotages" whenever things are going good, and winds up wreaking great emotional havoc on the men in her lives, even though she doesn't mean to. The result is still the same as dealing with a Type #2, though, and that’s why it’s vitally important you pay close attention to the above dating tips.

Obviously you want to spend your time with the Type #1's (in business and with women) and avoid the Type #2's. If you pay attention and listen for her, what I call, map/model of the world, you can usually identify the Type #2's. You'll hear things like "my last boyfriend was cheap, he wouldn't take me out or buy me things." Or, things like, "I drove by his house and a strange car was in the driveway… he was cheating on me." Here is a dating tip that will save you time, money, and heartache: when you hear things like this, run away FAST.

Type #3's can be more difficult to identify. It usually takes a lot longer, and you have to pay careful attention. Listen for things like, "It was going along so good, and I just don't know what happened." Type #3's are controlled by their "inner world," not in control of it. That's why I usually recommend starting any relationship as just "fun friends" so you can begin to get a clear picture of her map/model of the world and pinpoint her Type. A lot of what appear to be Type #1's in the beginning actually identify themselves as Type #3's later on down the line. You can never stop paying attention, or you will get in trouble. Dating tips like this one can be applied, and used day in and day out. Start paying attention to this, and watch just how true this is. It's the difference between happiness and misery!

John Alanis, "The King of Let 'em Come to You", is author of the "Women Approach You" system at http://www.womenapproachyou.com

His blog is at http://www.johnalanis.com

Some tips to carry when Online Dating

 

Man will never be an island.

 

Yes, as long as we breathe, we live as social creatures. We have this innate longing for companion- for someone to talk to, to listen, to comfort. Even the person who people think to be cold has another individual by his or her side. When one feels alone, it is like all the ghosts of life haunt him or her. All the emptiness tend to grow when one has nobody to call his or hers.

 

Many resort to Online Dating. The web offers numerous websites where you could meet, make friends, and, have relationship with persons who are registered in these websites. You just do not know what story of friendship or love awaits you. When you are single, with that it means you may be someone really single, divorced, widow, widower- online dating is there. Just like any kind of dating, one needs to equip his or her self with the different tips needed to make the most out of it.

 

There are these traditional dating strategies that work out and will always work out:

 

For women, it is not commendable to so assertive and goes after the men they want or like. Waiting for that man and being discreet is a better way. As to men, playing as if the “timid” one who is just too shy when it comes to meeting and interacting  with the opposite sex is not good at all. Let go of the confidence and look for that girl you want.

 

Talking about sexual topics when you do not know your date yet that well is not good at all. Verbal foreplay will just let the two of you focus on this aspect, get carried away and forget about the more important sides of the newly-found bond. This must be avoided another thing is not to have a sexual relationship before being committed. This would also be the one that will destroy the one which was established.

 

Stay true and be yourself as you are on the process of online dating. This will enable both of you to know each other really well and know if you are compatible with each other. The more you pretend, the more the relationship will grow weak in the future.

 

If you are afraid of getting hurt again, never test your partner if he or she has the capacity to do it to you too. This is very unhealthy for the relationship. Moreover, do not expect a lot and be disappointed easily. Every person is unique so do not let the other person be who you want her or him to be.

 

The best tip is this: to enjoy every moment and to get to know and eventually grow in love without the pressure of making everything the way you only want it to be.

Poetry and Music to please him/her...

This Idea uses the simplicity of Poetry, feleings of music and comany of your loving partner. Thays why it's one of most memorable dating Idea.

Memorize one of Shakespeare's love sonnets and recite it to your partner when you are in a romantic setting like a botanical garden. Don't just suddenly start reciting poetry as this will just sound corny.

While you are cuddling your partner, ask in a joking manner, "So is now a good time to recite a love poem to you?" She will probably say yes, expecting you to come up with something of the 

"Roses are Red..." variety.

Instead, look into her eyes, smile and recite the sonnet while you gently stroke her face. Try the sonnet below. If this is too long, just memorize the first four lines and the last two.

Shakespeare Love Sonnet 18

Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?

Thou art more lovely and more temperate.

Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,

And summer's lease hath all too short a date.

Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,

And often is his gold complexion dimmed,

And every fair from fair sometime declines,

By chance or nature's changing course untrimmed.

But thy eternal summer shall not fade,

Nor lose possession of that fair thou owest,

Nor shall Death brag thou wander'st in his shade

When in eternal lines to time thou grow'st.

So long as men can breathe, or eyes can see,

So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.

Happy Valentines Day

This Valentine's I wish that you were with me.

It's lonelier than most days I'm alone,

Even though we'll manage on the phone

To touch with words the face we cannot see. 

You away are far more dear to me

Than anyone who might remain at home.

My love is in the places that you roam,

Being with you where I cannot be.

We do not choose the objects of our passion,

But passively await the holy fire 

That immolates our past and lights our fate,

Twisting through the alleys of desire.

So I am yours, and will contented wait,

Allowing love my life and will to fashion.

A Valentine is nothing like

A chocolate or a rose.

For in a week these shall be gone,

But Valentines remain.

If love were always sweet to tongue

Or fragrant to the nose,

Each day would be like Valentine's,

And we would go insane.

A Valentine just hangs around

Waiting to be kissed

Long after special days have passed

And every days are here.

So one is wise to choose one well

And chocolates to resist.

For in the midst of mania

It's nice to have one near.

Be my Valentine, for I

Each day have thought of you.

My whole life couldn't manage what

Your ready smile can do,

Vanquishing my loneliness

As though all light were new.

Let me be your Valentine

Even as you're mine,

Needing what I have to give 

That each might each define

I n friendship and in harmony,

Now you, now I the melody,

Each helping each to shine

Valentine's Day

Is a wonderful way

To make "I love you"

Easy to say.

To ask you to be my Valentine

I'd have to talk to you,

Something that in all this time

I've managed not to do.

I'd have to get past "Hi!" somehow

To show you that I care,

But the right time is never now,

Especially when you're there.

It's as if a wall of fear,

Transparent yet profound,

Came hurtling up as you come near,

Cutting off all sound.

I fear I won't know what to say

And strike you as a fool,

Or you'll be glad to get away,

Polite not to be cruel.

Easier to dream than act,

To hope than to find out,

So fearful of the force of fact

I wait in fear-filled doubt.

But now the day of love has come,

And I must cross its line,

And so I ask you through this poem

To be my Valentine.

Three Keys to the most unforgettable date...

 

Dating is such a fun experience for whatever age it is, there is that different feeling of fulfillment and sheer joy as you meet a person you seem to have interest with. This is a means of finding your future life partner. It could also be a way of getting to know you better for through dating, the side of yourself that you are less familiar with is being unraveled.

 

When one is out on a date, what must he do in order to make the date worth a memory to cherish? Are there strict guidelines to follow? There are actually none, but there could be helpful tips in order for you to make the most out of your date. These tips are really important so that you would be able to act well and enjoy the rest of the time you have with that special person.

 

• Observe punctuality.

Time matters in almost any meeting or activity, it matters most in a date especially if it is the first date. Cliché as it may seem but first impressions last and you have to take good care of your date’s impression of you. It may mean something negative if you fail to arrive on time. You may have all the excuses, but you have to show the best efforts in order not to be late.

 

• Remind yourself that you are just excited and not nervous

 That strange pump of your heart is just going to distract you from doing well and enjoying your time. Well, it is but normal to feel that way but do not allow it to swallow you and stop you from doing the things you wanted to do. If you cannot stand the feeling, see to it that you divert that emotion to something that is more positive. Instead of feeling nervous, you have to remind yourself that you are just excited. This could really help you ease the burden of being worried or pressured. Being nervous does not help out, drop it off.

 

• Honesty is still the best policy

You do not have to impress your date by telling tall tales. Sincerity and honesty would always lead you to that acceptance from others. With your honest way of opening yourself to that person you choose to go out with, you would surely reap a warm and honest treatment as well. You could appear impressive without being dishonest. When you are true to what you say and feel, it exudes.

 

These are just three of the most helpful tips that could make heaven out of your date. Remember, it is the first step to find that lifetime partner you have been waiting for. For more tips, you could find them online. But for the best three tips, stick with our advice.

Tipsps & Tricks to

Save time (and have more fun) with online dating!

The best thing about dating websites is more people and more choices.

The worst thing about dating websites is all the hours you'll spend chatting or emailing

back and forth with so many people.

You don't want to be confined to your desk on a weekend, pounding out emails by the

dozen. Yet, you do want to write interesting and engaging emails, you want to contact

new singles and keep in touch.

Is there a way to be an active cyber-dater and actually have a life?

You bet there is, and it's easy! Just follow these proven tips:

1. Have an Email template:

Have a handy fill-in-the-blanks template which you can use to quickly write

exciting 'icebreaker' emails.

I know it sounds dishonest - about as dishonest as using a reminder service to

send flowers or having your Secretary book air tickets for your family

vacation…It's practical and convenient and it doesn't mean you don't care!

It's not possible for you to actually sound interesting in all your emails, especially

when you're writing to someone you've never met before. Besides, what if they

don't write back - all your efforts would be in vain!

Most people try to get over this problem by writing short emails, such as "Hi I'm

Mike, you're gorgeous, can we chat? I'm at Mike@FreeEmail.com" (Yawn!)

Chances are, Ms. Gorgeous has her mailbox flooded with emails exactly like

these and might forget or choose not to answer yours.

I personally feel that as long as your emails are honest and you care sincerely

about a person, it doesn't matter whether you write an email from scratch in 30

minutes or use a handy template that does the job in 3 minutes. It's a matter of

choice!

Have a few minutes to spare? Sit down now and write an email to that special

someone. Write about your life, your family, your dreams and aspirations, ask

questions that convey genuine interest and invite them to get in touch. Viola!

Your ice-breaker email is ready!

Now all you have to do is to personalize it with the recipient's name and work in

the details you know about them. Easy!

2. The Quick and Easy way to share photos

Attaching photos with your email can be a real pain in the neck!

You keep forgetting where you last saved them, maybe you have a lousy dial-up

connection which takes ages, or you travel a lot and you don't have your photos

on that computer, or if you use your mobile phone to send emails, you're

probably tearing your hair out at the very thought of it.

Relax! Many people upload their photos to websites such as Ofoto.com. All they

need to do is send a hyperlink with their email! The recipient only needs to sign

up to view the photos online or order prints.

If you want to save your recipient the bother of signing up, use a free hosting

service such as Geocities.com

If you have a free Yahoo Email Id, you can use your Id to log in to GeoCities.com.

Click File Upload and upload any number of photos you want within their storage

limit (which is quite generous). Then, go to File Manager, click through each

photo and carefully note the hyperlink that shows up in your browser's address

bar.

Now you're ready to include those hyperlinks with all your emails! Your recipient

can simply click through to view your images. Neat!

3. Don't beat around the bush

Say what you mean, and mean what you say!

If you hate kids, does it matter that the single dad you have been emailing all

week shares your love for gardening and says the most romantic things you ever

heard? And if you can't stand smokers, does it matter that she's prettier than

any woman you ever dated?

Make a list of your key questions and ask them first. Sure, you might offend

some people but most will appreciate your honesty and feel confident about

corresponding with you.

4. Chat for short spells

Chatting is a great way to create some "vibe" before you actually meet. You're

more likely to be honest and say what you really mean, when you aren't worried

about looking good, smelling nice or remembering your table manners.

But keep an eye on your watch, will you? You don't want to spend your entire

weekend staring at the monitor and pounding away at the keyboard. That's the

fastest way to frustration!

Chat for half an hour at most and use email to keep in touch.

5. Cell phone chat Etiquette

If your Instant Messenger indicates that your date is 'mobile', send shorter

messages that can be answered in 1-2 words, for example:

dinner tonight 8 pm? Don't expect your date to chat longer than a few minutes.

Cell phone chatting is pesky and slow. Use it sparingly.

6. Office Id? Use discretion!

Many companies monitor their employee's email correspondence. Don't send

messages that might embarrass your date if discovered, or which might prompt

them to respond in a way that could lead to embarrassment.

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